Showing posts with label 100 Days to a Better Me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 100 Days to a Better Me. Show all posts

Sunday, October 7, 2012

100 Days to a Better Me - Check in #3

Since September 1st, I've been doing a "100 Days to a Better Me" challenge in which I've been working on activities that seem most pressing at this time for me and are a continuation of what I have been working on during this pivotal year in my life.

I am keeping a chart for each the challenge so I can mark off and write about the 100 day journey I'm on. This also helps keep me accountable and on track with my goals.

Here's an update about how I've done with each of the things I'm working on:

Health - Food and Fitness

- For the next 100 days, eat three servings of fruits or vegetables every day.

There were several days towards the end of September where there were limited fresh fruits and vegetables in house. Also, while I was on a trip for about four days, I didn't eat three meals a day. So, I didn't do so well on those days in terms of reaching the goal I set.

On the remaining days, I did do well with eating three servings of fruits or vegetables every day.

One of my favorite salads during the time period:
salad greens with fresh peaches, blueberries, snap peas, and feta cheese.

- For the next 100 days, get at least 20 minutes of daily exercise.

During this two-week period, I found that the longest times I walked were when I was on the trip and had to walk through airports.

My preferred way to exercise has been by doing outside work - dragging the hose to the barn to fill the horses' water, moving the hose around the yard to water the trees before everything freezes, and putting 50 bales of hay in the barn with the help of the next door neighbor and his friend.

- For the next 100 days, instead of 2 cans of Diet Cokes or Diet Pepsi, drink only 1 can. 

I am now 37 days into the challenge and I find that I am reaching more for water than for pop. On a couple of the days, I didn't even finish a can of pop.

In about three weeks, I will eliminate that last can of pop and drink water only. I think this gradual change from 3-4 cans each day in January, to 2 cans in the spring and summer, to 1 can in the fall has made the transition much easier. My body has gotten use to the decrease in caffeine over a slower time period. However, I think it was necessary since I was drinking pop each day for 28+ years.

Self-Improvement/Education

- Make it a point to learn at least one new thing each day.

I liked this part of the challenge because it seems like there is something new every day that I can learn. Some of the things I learned during the past 14 days include:

=> Nutmeg loses its flavor quickly. Skip the pre-ground stuff and whole instead. Rub the seed along a fine grater. Place the seed in a jar in a cool dark place. It will last for one year.

=> Celery leaves can be baked in a 200 degree oven until they are crisp. Crumble and mix with coarse salt. Sprinkle on deviled eggs.

=> To reduce mildew in the bathroom, leave the bathroom door open and/or ventilation fan on for 20 minutes post-shower.

=> For a fiberfill, down, or feather-filled pillow, fold it in half with a heavy book on top. If it pops back so it's flat - keep it. Otherwise, it should be tossed.

=> Lip balm can be dabbed on a small paper cut as well as nicks from shaving. It soothes the sting and stops the bleeding quickly.

=> Natural sources of Vitamin E prevent cancer while synthetic versions of Vitamin E promote cancer.

=> The tree of contemplative practices has several categories: stillness, generative, creative, activist, relational, movement, ritual/cyclical, communion and connection, and awareness. I tend to fall into the creative and activist categories.

=> There are quite a few varieties of Acer cultivars. These Japanese Maples come in a wide variety of colors: yellow, orange, and red.

=> Seasonal allergies can cause dark circles under eyes. Rubbing eyes irritates the skin and can lead to melanin build-up. Eye cream with brighteners like Vitamin C can help.

=> I learned what a series and parallel are in terms of electricity. Did hands- on experiments with the girls to visually show what these mean.

=> The artificial sweeteners in diet sodas can cause a multitude of health issues, including an imbalance of glucose and insulin levels that can increase the risk of diabetes.

=> Those who drank two or more diet sodas a day experienced 500% greater waist circumference increases, according to the San Antonio Longitudinal Study of Aging which collected data from 474 adults over nine years.

=> A dwarf dairy goat is the size of a golden retriever and can produce up to a quart of milk per day.

- Homeschool 5-6 days each week, and take one day off to ensure I don't burn out from teaching.

Out of the past 14 days, I homeschooled the girls actively 8 days.

Helped Olivia make Spanish tapas.
This tied into the book "Ferdinand" that I read to her.


I provided a list of things for them to do while I was on a trip for four days. They followed the list and did the work they needed to do during that time period. Two days I took off.

Sophia's nature journal entry about birds that are blue.

Organization and Home Maintenance

- Declutter one area in the home. (Spend an average of 15 minutes per day on this project or 105 minutes per week.)

I did about 1 hour and 45 minutes of decluttering over the past two weeks. It's more than the last check in period, but not enough to keep pace and make up for time I didn't do in previous weeks.

At this point, I want to do 4 hours and 40 minutes today to make up for the time I didn't spend on this goal. This will get me back on track and moving forward with this goal.


During the past couple of weeks, I cleaned some of the hobby shed and gathered items that could be donated to the thrift shop. I also cleaned out the car and vacuumed it. Although both aren't the home per se, they are areas where things are stored and/or we spend time in.


- Work on the list of items that need to be done to address water damage. Do at least 10 items on the list (there are 74 projects) over the next 100 days.

I continue to empty the two dehumidifiers that are running continuously on the 1st and 2nd floors. I also check the big dehumidifier in the basement on a daily basis. The bucket doesn't need to be emptied since I have a hose that drains in the sump pump/well area.

The humidity level in the basement is down to 40% from 95%. This is major progress. During the last time period it was down to 55%. The main floor is still at about 55% humidity (down from 75%); and the second floor is at 40% (down from the original 75%). Once the entire second floor gets down to 40%, I'm going to bring the dehumidifier downstairs so it can get that area more in line with the other areas of the home.

We made a decision on which tile will go in the bathrooms as well as the kitchen. Returned the samples to the flooring store. At this point, though, I need to wait at least a month until the gutter bill is paid in full. There are too many projects that need to get done, but a finite amount of money.

Spiritual Growth

- For the next 100 days, make a point of doing some form of prayer each day in preparation of and during the Wellspring program.

About half of the days, I didn't feel like I intentionally did any form of prayer. Of the days that I did, I wrote in my journal, worked on writing my spiritual history for the Wellspring program.

On two of the days, I attended the Wellspring program (3 hours one Sunday and 2 hours the following Sunday). This included prayer, meditation, period of silence, deep listening to others in the group, journaling, and making a presentation to the group on October 7th.

I need to be more intentional during this upcoming time period, because a part of the Wellspring program is taking the time for daily spiritual practice.

Caring for and Connecting with Others

- Continue participating in the 3 in 30 Challenge as a way to stay accountable for setting three goals per month and reaching them.

For the 3 in 30 Challenge, we've been using up leftovers rather than making new meals almost every day. However, there were days that I did try new recipes that were on the menu plan I developed.

Easy egg casserole that I made.
It was very good.


For about four days, I was away so I couldn't work on the goals for the week. I set new goals for October and posted about that on October 5th.

- Begin participating in the 30 Days of Lists and Autumn Blog Challenge.

The 30 Days of Lists definitely fell by the wayside. It was just one too many projects to do during September. So, at this point, I'm going to do the remaining lists when I have time. I did two more which brings me now to September 18th.

Out of 14 prompts for the Autumn Blog Challenge, I chose to write about four of them:
=> Important Qualities in Friends
=> The Most Memorable Halloween
=> Halloween Costumes through the Years
=> Pumpkin Carving

=> Pumpkin Spice Bread - My Favorite Autumn Recipe


Pumpkin Spice Bread that I made during
the first week of October.

- Complete the 12 in 12 Challenge that Sophia, Olivia, and I are doing by December 12, 2012 (12-12-12).

We did several things on the 12 in 12 Challenge in September:
=> Made quite a few donations to Family Pathways (clothing, books, and non-clothing items)
=> Donated items to Northwoods Humane Society: cash, cans, and Kitten Chow.

Jewell, a dog living at Northwoods Humane Society,
who needs a new home and loving family.


=> Put out the hand-embroidered toy for a child to find.
=> Sang in the children's choir at one service.
=> Wrote about what we did in September and posted it on the blog.

The girls sang in the children's choir on September 30th.

I received a beautiful thank you note from my friend, Yoshiko, in Japan. She wrote in response to the note I sent her and said some wonderful and touching things to me in the letter. I feel so fortunate to have such a good friend.

- For the next 100 days, actively look for something positive in each person in my family every day, and write it down. Use these for Christmas gifts.

I have done this each day, and am enjoying this project. I had hoped to start typing the list of qualities. At this point, I truly do need to begin or it will become rather overwhelming during the holidays.

- Continue with Foodie Penpals as a way to introduce others and myself to healthy food options.

I received the box from my penpal. I wrote about what I received, and posted it on October 1st.

Everything that my penpal sent was delicious.
The salt-water taffy, by far, was the favorite item in the box.


During November and December I will be taking a break from the Foodie Penpal program. The cost for buying the food combined with shipping it (about $15 for the food plus an equal amount for shipping) is more than I want to and can spend right now. I hope to be able to return to it in the future.

Creative Expression

- Continue with Take a Stitch Tuesday; and do a weekly journal entry which includes the stitch of the week, personal reflection, and gratitude list.

I did not do anything with the embroidery stitches. In all honesty, I am rather torn about this activity. As much as I like learning new embroidery stitches, it all feels so overwhelming right now. I feel like I learned quite a few stitches and have a nice embroidery journal.

Yet, I don't want to quit doing the journal because the personal reflection and gratitude list is something important that I want to do to mark this difficult year. I've thought about just doing the reflection, gratitude list, and collage...and leaving out the embroidery part.

Maybe I just need to write and keep up with that part and do the embroidery when I have time. However, the longer I wait the more behind I'm going to get. I just don't know what to do at this point.

- Continue with the Embroidery Journal Project and do one embroidered quilt square for each month (September, October, November, and December).

I completed the embroidered quilt square for the month. I wrote about it HERE.

Finished embroidered quilt square.
Each item symbolizes something that happened during September.


- Complete Coloring Mandalas - For Insight, Healing, and Self-Expression.

I did 2 mandalas during this time period both on the 29th of September I'm a bit behind with this goal.

Financial

- Don’t buy anything that I don’t absolutely need for 100 days. Use any money I save to do one of the following:
=> Pay down my debt.
=> Put it toward my six-month emergency fund.
=> Put it toward a car to replace the one with 214,000+ miles on it.

Out of the 14 days, I didn't spend anything on 11 days (79% of them)! I'm very happy about that.

There were days that I did spend money on things that we needed:
=> Food - only the groceries that we absolutely needed or could freeze or can (thereby saving money during the winter and spring when produce prices will invariably go higher). Pears were marked down over 30 cents per pound, so I bought a flat of them so I am able to can them and use them in the off-seasons.
=> Homeschool Supplies - purchased some items at United Noodles in Minneapolis for us to sample that were made in different countries that we are studying as part of the Eastern Hemisphere curriculum. (United Noodles is the largest Asian grocery store in the Midwest.)

An entire aisle of shelves filled with soups 
at United Noodles.

=> Household Supplies - purchased only the key items we needed.

=> Gasoline - for the car.
=> Shoes - Olivia needed shoes since the pair she had were too small. She has one pair for everyday wear and the other for dress-up. She also needed a pair of soft-soled slippers to wear for equestrian vaulting since she has started doing doubles on the horse and her other pair could get stuck and potentially result in an injury.
=> Car Maintenance/Repair - The brake line was rusted through and brake fluid leaking. The brakes were not working properly and could have gone out completely had I not brought the car in when I did. The bill was a lot more than I had hoped it would cost. However, at least the brake line as well as the front and rear calipers are new and working. This is especially important going into winter when brakes seem even more critical.

Finding free things to do that are fun
is a great way to save money.
Sophia, Olivia, and I visited an alpaca farm at the end of September.
This is one of the babies that is about a month old.

Some of the things that I purchased that I didn't absolutely need were:

=> Halloween Costume for Sophia. As a way to save money, though, we went to the thrift shop. We found exactly what Sophia wanted and everything fit perfectly. For only $15, it saved a lot of money compared to what I would have spent at Target or another retailer.

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All in all, I'm very happy with the progress I'm making. It's good to have these goals and be making a conscientious effort to reach them.

Sunday, September 23, 2012

100 Days to a Better Me - Check in #2

Since September 1st, I've been doing a "100 Days to a Better Me" challenge in which I've been working on activities that seem most pressing at this time for me and are a continuation of what I have been working on during this pivotal year in my life.

I am keeping a chart for each the challenge so I can mark off and write about the 100 day journey I'm on. This also helps keep me accountable and on track with my goals.

Since the first update on September 9th, I've resumed homeschooling Sophia and Olivia. In addition, their activities (e.g., homeschool co-op, lessons, special education) all are happening. Work on the house (interior and exterior) also began to address water damage issues.

With all these additions to the schedule, trying to accomplish everything I hoped has been a bit challenging...to say the least. For the most part, I was able to do everything. However, there were areas that I found more difficult to do or simply didn't have the time to do.

Here's an update about how I've done with each of the things I'm working on:

Health - Food and Fitness

- For the next 100 days, eat three servings of fruit or vegetables every day.

With the exception of a couple of days, I ate at least three servings of fruits or vegetables each day.

Side dish with a variety of vegetables
for everyone to enjoy.

As I near the end of the month the amount of fresh fruits and vegetables has decreased, so having a wide variety like I did at the beginning of the month isn't an option.

Out of this part of the 100 days, I enjoyed fresh peaches as well as chick pea and cherry tomato salad the best.

Chick pea and cherry tomato salad I made.
  
- For the next 100 days, get at least 20 minutes of daily exercise.

The times ranged from 10-30 minutes of exercising each day. There were some days that the day went by so quickly that it was evening before I realized that I hadn't exercised.

What I need to remember is that my day does involve a lot of walking up and down stairs; moving around the kitchen to make meals; and taking care of the dogs, cats, and horses. Although it's not as rigorous as a cardio workout at a gym...it nonetheless is some form of exercise that keeps my body moving.

- For the next 100 days, instead of 2 cans of Diet Cokes or Diet Pepsi, drink only 1 can. 

This has been much easier than I anticipated. I am finding that now - 23 days into the challenge - I am reaching more for water than for pop. On one of the days, I didn't even finish a can of pop.

I am going to go through October with the same goal of drinking only 1 can per day; and then aim to completely eliminate pop starting on November 1st.

Self-Improvement/Education

- Make it a point to learn at least one new thing each day.

I liked this part of the challenge because it seems like there is something new every day that I can learn. Some of the things I learned during the past 14 days include:

=> When grieving, if you do too much often times your body will get sick. Avoid the extreme of overwork so you don't have to deal with grief.

=> If your grief is new and raw, watch for signs of avoidance. Let the simple tasks of daily living comfort you. Find comfort in helping others and in hobbies. Find a midway point - between your mind and excessiveness. The path will lead you to a new life.

=> I learned what an Alexa rating is and that all websites are rated on their popularity...even blogs.

=> Learned how a metal rod in a person's back can be adjusted once it is in there. Saw how a child with severe scoliosis had a rod put in her back well over a year ago and the huge improvement in her posture. She now can sit upright and looks much more comfortable.

=> The pistil stitch is a straight stitch with a French knot at the end.

=> Berries will fall off the high cranberry bush if they are trimmed now. If I wait until the second freeze and then trim the cranberry bush, the berries will stay on the branches. Then, the branches can be placed somewhere else in the yard for the cedar waxwings and cardinals to enjoy.

=> A sub-flooring in the bathroom shouldn't be plywood. It should be concrete and/or have a waterproof coating so water doesn't get into the wood and rot it.

=> PEMDAS - order of math operations. Had never heard of this before. Parenthesis, exponents/powers, multiplication, division, addition, and subtraction. Go from left to right if the P and/or E aren't in the equation.

=> Carpet can trap moisture and lower indoor air quality. It also is a favorite home of dust mites.

=> Chiari Malformation is a degenerative neurological condition that dogs can get. I believe that's what Sydne had since the vet said that it is not a common condition he normally sees. Her head tiled to one side, she had trouble with balance, and walking was impaired near the end of her life. There were other issues, but these were the most apparent.

=> Black labs and lab mixes are euthanized at a much higher rate at pounds and shelters because people pass them up for lighter colored dogs.

- Homeschool 5-6 days each week, and take one day off to ensure I don't burn out from teaching.

Out of the past 14 days/2 weeks, I taught Sophia and Olivia 11 days. We are pretty much on schedule for each subject that they are studying.

We learned about hummingbirds.
Each of the girls and I did an entry in our nature journals.

Within the past two weeks, I took 3 days off. Although the girls did activities and learned something on those days, there were less intense than normal homeschooling days.

On one of my days off, we went out to eat with friends visiting from Massachusetts.
After lunch, a man who was a falconer was standing in the parking lot 
with a red-tailed hawk. Sophia, Olivia, and I were able to pet it.
(Its feathers were incredibly soft.)
He captured the hawk and is raising it during its first year of life.
This time period is the most critical, with many hawks 
dying during their first year.
He will release it after the first year.

Organization and Home Maintenance

- Declutter one area in the home. (Spend an average of 15 minutes per day on this project or 105 minutes per week.)

I did about an hour of decluttering over the past two weeks. It's not much. However, I did clean two drawers in the upstairs bathroom; removed boxes and bins from the upstairs hallway from another decluttering project and put them in the trash or recycled them; and cleaned my desk.

At this point, I want to do 2 hours and 55 minutes today to make up for the time I didn't spend on this goal. This will get me back on track and moving forward with this goal.

- Work on the list of items that need to be done to address water damage. Do at least 10 items on the list (there are 74 projects) over the next 100 days.

I continue to empty the two dehumidifiers that are running continuously on the 1st and 2nd floors. I also check the big dehumidifier in the basement on a daily basis. The bucket doesn't need to be emptied since I have a hose that drains in the sump pump/well area.

The humidity level in the basement is down to 65% from 95%. This is major progress. The main floor is still at about 60% humidity (down from 75%); and the second floor is at 55% (down from 75%).

I opened the windows of the house on the 13-15th since the weather was nice and humidity was low outdoors. I'm not sure if this helps or not, but it was nice to get some fresh (and non-humid) air flowing through the house.

The gutters were installed on September 17th. This should make a major difference in directing the water away from the foundation of the home, and preventing it from seeping through the walls and having water in the basement.

Gutters on one section of the house.

The trees around the house and yard were trimmed on the 17th and 18th.

A fan with light was installed in the upstairs bathroom. It was not working, so all the moisture from when we took baths and showers stayed in the room. Needless to say, that wasn't a good thing. The electrician also fixed the light/fan switch so now it is working.

I met with the tiling guys and looked at the jobs that need to be done in the bathrooms and kitchen. Went to the flooring store on the 20th and picked out five tile samples that I brought home to decide which one looks best.

Spiritual Growth

- For the next 100 days, make a point of doing some form of prayer each day in preparation of and during the Wellspring program.

For a more untraditional form of prayer on two days, I filled the bird feeders and bird bath; and enjoyed watching the many birds that came to eat, drink water, and take a bath. It raised my spirits to see: cardinals, house finches, robins, goldfinches, northern flickers, red-bellied woodpeckers, downy woodpeckers, black-capped chickadees, nuthatches, and blue jays.

Blue jay at the bird bath.

I believe the hummingbirds have now migrated south. Nonetheless, I am keeping the hummingbird feeder up until it freezes, especially since the red-bellied woodpecker enjoys drinking from it.

Red-bellied woodpecker at the hummingbird feeder.

I continued reading passages in three meditation books. Rather than reading them each day, I'm finding that I'm reading 2-3 passages from each book on a particular morning. This isn't as effective as reading only one passage from each book daily. I would like to get back to reading each day rather than when I make the time.

Another morning, I ended up simply relaxing in bed for about ten minutes and listening to the wind move the wind chimes. The chimes are all hand-cut and hand-tuned, and of varying lengths so the sound is much more melodic and beautiful than normal chimes.

Caring for and Connecting with Others

- Continue participating in the 3 in 30 Challenge as a way to stay accountable for setting three goals per month and reaching them.

For the 3 in 30 Challenge, Sophia, Olivia, and I have tried a variety of new recipes as part of the meal plan I did for the first couple of weeks of September.

Sandwiches on a stick that we made for lunch.

During the third week, I wrote a meal plan, but then balanced the checkbook and looked at upcoming expenses for the week (had quite a few due to home repairs). I wasn't able to do the meal plan as I had hoped. Rather, I will need to use what I have on hand until the end of the month. The positive thing about that is that I use food that I already have and thereby save some money.

One of the meals we made using items we had on hand.

I also have been using up leftovers rather than always making something new for each meal. In this way, we use what's on hand and don't waste food.

One of the goals I had during this time period is to organize all the fabric that I have in bins and bags. I have done this yet, but want to complete this by the end of the month.

I wrote two posts about my progress during this time period. Also commented on other participants who are doing the 3 in 30 Challenge.

- Begin participating in the 30 Days of Lists and Autumn Blog Challenge.

The 30 Days of Lists definitely has fallen by the wayside. I have completed lists through September 15th. One day I cut two pieces of scrapbooking paper for each day and glued them into the booklet. I also dated each journal entry and included the prompt. At this point, I need to do 7 lists to be current.

One of the entries for the 30 Days of Lists Project.

Out of 14 prompts for the Autumn Blog Challenge, I chose to write about four of them:
=> 3 Things that are Important to Me
=> 5 Short-term Goals to Help with Grieving
=> Phy Ed: My Least Favorite Subject in School
=> Art: My Favorite Subject in School

- Complete the 12 in 12 Challenge that Sophia, Olivia, and I are doing by December 12, 2012 (12-12-12).

We did a couple of things on the 12 in 12 Challenge:
=> We continued to fill the bird feeders and clean the bird bath.
=> Purchased 24 packages of soup to be donated to a food shelf.

- For the next 100 days, actively look for something positive in each person in my family every day, and write it down. Use these for Christmas gifts.

I have done this each day, and am enjoying this project. I think during the next couple of weeks I should begin typing what I wrote so that it doesn't get so overwhelming near Christmas when I present each person with the list of 100 positive things about them.

- Continue with Foodie Penpals as a way to introduce others and myself to healthy food options.

I mailed a box of food and recipes to my Foodie Penpal and she said she received it. She seemed very excited about what I sent. She will post about it on October 1st. My penpal said she mailed the box to me on the 15th, but it has yet to arrive. I'm hoping that it comes on Monday.

Creative Expression

- Continue with Take a Stitch Tuesday; and do a weekly journal entry which includes the stitch of the week, personal reflection, and gratitude list.

There were two stitches to learn during the time period - the pistil stitch and the drizzle stitch. The former stitch I learned and enjoyed.

A trio of flowers done in the pistil stitch.
They are included in my embroidery journal.

The latter stitch I didn't even attempt. The stitch requires a lot of threading and re-threading of the needle and sits up from the fabric in a rather unattractive manner. I wouldn't use this stitch in my embroidery in the future, so didn't want to waste my time learning it. Instead, I picked an easy stitch that I knew I could remember and use in the future.

I did both journal entries which include a personal reflection, gratitude list, and collage of images that represent the week: Week 37 and Week 38.

- Continue with the Embroidery Journal Project and do one embroidered quilt square for each month (September, October, November, and December).

I did not start working on this yet. As I noted on the 9th (when I did the first update), I usually wait until the third week to start working on the EJP because I want to see what stands out as the most important and meaningful things that happened during the month. Then I search for images to reflect those things, and begin doing the embroidered square.

My embroidery floss box.

- Complete Coloring Mandalas - For Insight, Healing, and Self-Expression.

I did 2 mandalas during this time period - on the 13th and 19th. I'm keeping up with this goal.

Financial

- Don’t buy anything that I don’t absolutely need for 100 days. Use any money I save to do one of the following:
=> Pay down my debt.
=> Put it toward my six-month emergency fund.
=> Put it toward a car to replace the one with 214,000+ miles on it.

Out of the 14 days, I didn't spend anything on 6 days (43% of them)! I'm very happy about that.  There were even days that we went out and did free activities. Even though there were things that I could have purchased, I chose not to do so. It was a good feeling.

Olivia buried herself in a soybean pit.
The pressure of the soybeans is great for kids 
who have sensory processing disorder (which she does).

There were days that I did spend money on things that we needed:
=> Food - only the groceries that we absolutely needed or could freeze or can (thereby saving money during the winter and spring when produce prices will invariably go higher).
=> Gutters - only on the critical areas where water goes over the edge and seeps into the basement.
=> Tree trimming - for over 3 years I haven't had the trees trimmed. It may be even longer for some of the trees and bushes directly by the house. These were aggressively cut back to allow more air flow against the side of the home and help dry out the ground which is saturated in some areas even though we are in the middle of a drought.
=> Gasoline - for the car.
=> Electrician - to fix the switch that controlled the fan/light in the bathroom; to fix another switch by the bed; and to install a functioning fan/light in the bathroom. The first and last items are critical to keeping the humidity low and moisture out of the bathroom. The fan hasn't worked for years so the level of moisture in the bathroom was very high. The walls were blistering in some areas, indicative of water damage.  This small expense now will help save money in the long run.

There was so much trimmed from the trees that a forklift
had to be used to haul the branches to the burn pit.

Some of the things that I purchased that I didn't absolutely need were:
=> A meal at church festival for Sophia, Olivia, and me.
=> Food and postage for my Foodie Penpal.
=> Two small gifts for Sophia and Olivia that will be put aside until Christmas. One was a pair of earrings ($2) and the other a handmade scarf ($5) that were at the craft sale at the festival.
=> Harp lessons for Sophia. Technically, this is an educational expense so I consider it a need. In reality, it is something that is a luxury...a "want." To balance the expense, she has performed for no fee at a nursing home and church. She is practicing a song "On Eagle's Wings" to play for her grandma in memory of her grandpa (my dad) near the one-year anniversary of his death. We are hoping that she will be able to play the piece at a day-time mass in his memory.

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All in all, I'm very happy with the progress I'm making. It's good to have these goals and be making a conscientious effort to reach them.

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Homeschool Mother's Journal - September 13th

In my life this past week...

I continued working on the 100 Days to a Better Me challenge. Before Labor Day, it was a bit easier since homeschooling and the girls' activities had not all started yet. Now, it's a bit more difficult to do everything I hoped to do.

In our homeschool this week... 

We came back from a trip to Lake Itasca where the Mississippi River begins. Sophia and Olivia saw another part of Minnesota where they had not been before.

Olivia jumping from stone to stone 
at the Mississippi Headwaters. 
Underneath the rocks is a dam which separates 
Lake Itasca from the start of the Mississippi River.

The girls began taking classes again at the homeschool co-op (both take piano lessons and ceramics; Sophia also takes cooking; and Olivia takes art fundamentals). We began doing all the subjects and activities that I had planned starting this past Tuesday - during the second week of September.

Helpful homeschooling tips or advice to share.

If possible, start homeschooling a few weeks ahead of time by gradually introducing some subjects and activities. By the first day of the homeschool year, the transition back from summer to fall isn't as overwhelming.

I am inspired by…

The beauty of nature - especially as the colors of the leaves are changing.

One of the many flowers at a rose/flower garden
in St. Cloud, Minnesota.
It was one of the stops we made on the way to Lake Itasca.
(Taken on September 4, 2012.)

Places we’re going and people we’re seeing…

We are excited to see friends visiting from Massachusetts. Last year, Sophia, Olivia, and I visited them and we had a great dinner together in Boston. This year, we are going out to eat and then spend time at the farm. The girls already know what card and board games they want to play.

My favorite thing this week was…

By far, the favorite thing we did this week was spend time at Lake Itasca, and then see two of the largest lakes in Minnesota (we saw the largest lake in Minnesota earlier in the trip).

Sophia and Olivia by Leech Lake -
the second largest lake in Minnesota.
(Taken on September 6, 2012.)

What’s working/not working for us…

The Sonlight curriculum that we're using this year has been wonderful. It's nice to have the schedule of books to read and activities to do for the history/geography of the Eastern Hemisphere.

This year is the first year both girls are using A Reason for Spelling. Although spelling is not the girls' favorite subjects, the way this curriculum is presented is engaging and fun for the girls.

Things I’m working on…

I'm continuing to work on organizing and simplifying my home. This has been a year-long goal, with small projects each month through 3 in 30. I've set a goal for the next 100 days to de-clutter one area in the home each day for 15 minutes (105 minutes per week). This is going very well.

I’m reading…

Buddhism - Explore the Teachings and Traditions of this Ancient Religion. It's actually geared for children (it's a DK Eyewitness Book), and one of the books that Sophia will be looking at and reading for the Eastern Hemisphere lessons/activities she's doing.

I don't know that much about Buddhism, so I thought I'd better read at least one book so I'm familiar with the history and beliefs of the religion about which she needs to learn.

I’m cooking…

A variety of healthy food. We're eating a lot more fresh vegetables and fruits since the beginning of the month. Pinterest has been a great resource for finding new recipes and ideas. I put links to what I've made recently here.

Fresh fruit with yogurt and granola in 
wonton cups.
(Taken on September 11, 2012.)

I’m grateful for…

Cooler weather and being able to open the windows once again. The high heat and humidity of the summer was difficult...at best.

A photo, video, link, or quote to share…

Floating Milkweed
Sophia spreading milkweed seeds and
watching them float away.
(Taken on September 29, 2007.)

"The milkweed pods are breaking, and the bits of silken down, float off upon the autumn breeze, across the meadows brown." (Cecil Cavendish)


Sunday, September 9, 2012

100 Days to a Better Me - Check In #1

Since September 1st, I've been doing a "100 Days to a Better Me" challenge in which I've been working on activities that seem most pressing at this time for me and are a continuation of what I have been working on during this pivotal year in my life.

I am keeping a chart for each the challenge so I can mark off and write about the 100 day journey I'm on. This also helps keep me accountable and on track with my goals.

Here's an update about how I've done with each of the things I'm working on:

Health - Food and Fitness

- For the next 100 days, eat three servings of fruit or vegetables every day.

I found that this was very easy to do. For some reason, I didn't think I was eating at least three servings of fruits or vegetables per day. My favorite: fresh strawberries and blueberries.

- For the next 100 days, get at least 20 minutes of daily exercise.

The times ranged from 20 minutes - 1 1/2 hours of exercising each day. The key for me is variety.

The walking path through the bog
at Itasca State Park.

I walked the dogs, did Keeping Fit in Your 50s (even though I'm not 50 yet, the focus was on stretching which is important to do with Degenerative Disk Disease), and walked/hiked multiple times at two different state parks.

Part of the hike we took one day involving
going up and down this rock staircase.

Even parking far away from where we were going to sit for a parade is a form of exercise. The walk was pleasant with cooler temperatures and a nice, crisp wind.


It's not every day that you see a gnome walking down the street.
He was one of the many participants in this year's parade.

- For the next 100 days, instead of 2 cans of Diet Cokes or Diet Pepsi, drink only 1 can. 

Surprisingly, I was able to drink only 1 can per day. The "big test" came as I had to drive Tuesday and Thursday for more than six hours. Normally, I can easily consume 3 cans of Diet Coke during the driving time just to stay alert.

What I did was stretch out drinking the can of pop and alternating it with Cucumber-Lemon Water, and taking breaks about every hour to get out of the car and walk around. That seems to do the trick in terms of staying alert.

Self-Improvement/Education

- Make it a point to learn at least one new thing each day.

I enjoyed this part of the challenge. Some of the things I learned during the past nine days include:

=> Confucius believed people should live in harmony - with each other and nature. He felt he served as a creative transmitter of the wisdom of the past.

=> The northern part of Vietnam was one part of China around 111 B.C. Although they spoke Chinese, wrote it, and followed Confucian ideals, they clung to their identity - long hair, tattoos, black-lacquered teeth, and chewing betel nuts.

=> It is 233 miles from my home to Lake Itasca. It will take 4 hours and 19 minutes in driving time alone to get to the state park.

The headwaters of the Mississippi River actually 
is a dam that is covered by hand-placed rocks, boulders, and pebbles
that are pressed into concrete.

=> If you step on moss in a bog, it can leave a foot print there for an entire summer. //// Tthe house in Little Falls (Minnesota) is where Charles A. Lindbergh, Sr. spent the majority of his time...not Charles A. Lindbergh, Jr. (the aviator) who spent limited time there as a boy.

Went through parts of Red Lake Nation 
on September 5th.

=> "Minn" means "water" (it's a Native American word).  ////  The Mississippi River is one of the longest rivers in the world. The headwaters cover a man-made dam that is covered with sand, pebbles, and rocks that are embedded in concrete. //// There is a lot of poverty in the reservations that we drove through. The people we met there were very friendly. //// Saw how wild rice is produced.

Raw wild rice before it goes through the sorting process.
We were able to see this and get a lesson about wild rice
by going into the office of Gourmet Farms 
in Clearbrook, Minnesota.

=> The Old Timers Cabin was the first one built at Lake Itasca State Park. //// Read about how the Ojibwe were promised provisions and shelter at Sandy Lake. Over 3,000 people showed up. They never received what they were promised. Many Ojibwe died; and others had to hike back to their home territories without much food or energy.

=> Leech Lake is mostly in the Leech Lake Indian Reservation and all in the Chippewa National Forest.  //// Found out the name of the town where I spent the first few weeks of my life. The camp where Dad was a camp director is no longer there, but now I know where Mom and Dad stayed when I was about 2 weeks old to 5-6 weeks old. Mom said there was no running water in the cabin, and it was a struggle trying to care for me when I was so young.

=> In Thailand, Myanmar, and Laos, there are lock-shaped pendants that are engraved and put on a neck ring. It is believed that these "soul lockers" protect a person against illnesses and keep the soul inside the body when s/he is sick.

- Homeschool 5-6 days each week, and take one day off to ensure I don't burn out from teaching.

I took one day off during this time period, though some of first few days of September were not as difficult since I hadn't officially started homeschooling.

Sophia lighting a bulb using a battery and 
a piece of tinfoil that has scotch tape on the inside.
It was part of the lesson on electricity this week.

 Nonetheless, we made food for some of the girls' lessons and spent part of one day hiking at William O'Brien State Park.

Sophia and Olivia having dinner by the cabin
we stayed in at Lake Itasca State Park.

After Labor Day, we began the year by doing our annual "Not Back to School Trip" to Lake Itasca State Park. This was a great opportunity to learn about geography, history, culture, food, nature, map reading, and science.

The girls wanted to do something, so I had them work together
to make brownies. The recipe is from the Iowa chapter
in "Eat Your Way Through the U.S.A."
These are probably the best brownies I've ever tasted!

Organization and Home Maintenance

- Declutter one area in the home. (Spend an average of 15 minutes per day on this project or 105 minutes per week.)

The first five days I didn't do anything with this goal. When I returned from Lake Itasca, I spent 110 minutes on the 8th organizing paperwork and receipts for taxes. All of the these items which were in a drawer or in a bag to be filed are now in an expandable file divided by category (e.g., medical records, mortgage, electricity).

The expandable folder that holds paperwork
for 2012 taxes.

- Work on the list of items that need to be done to address water damage. Do at least 10 items on the list (there are 74 projects) over the next 100 days.

The main thing I did was continue to empty the two dehumidifiers that are running continuously on the 1st and 2nd floors. The big dehumidifier in the basement, which also runs continuously, I checked on daily to make sure the hose was draining in the sump pump/well area.

The deposit for the gutters is in, and gutters are going to be installed next week. With the rain this past week, I saw exactly where the water is leaking into the basement. Once the gutters are installed, it will be a test to see if they address the leaking or if exterior drain tiling is needed.

Spiritual Growth

- For the next 100 days, make a point of doing some form of prayer each day in preparation of and during the Wellspring program.

Starting on the 1st of this month, I've been taking time each morning (anywhere from 20-30 minutes) to read the daily passages in three meditation books and/or do the prayer beads I created this summer.

One of the many flowers at the 
rose/flower garden in St. Cloud.

I also took pictures of the hummingbirds; walked the dogs and thought about Dad; walked in state parks and  appreciated the natural beauty of each area; walked around a flower/rose garden in St. Cloud; walked through a bog and took time to notice a little stream and waterfall as well as the beauty of Lake Itasca; and listened to crows cawing and watched a pileated woodpecker fly overhead.

On September 5th, I spent some time sitting by the fire
reading, writing, and reflecting.

September 5th marked the eight-month anniversary of Dad's death. Eight months later, I was camping with the girls at Lake Itasca. I think of all the camping Dad did and how much he loved nature. Going over the headwaters was something we did as a family when my sister, brother, and I were kids. It is a memory I've now given to Sophia and Olivia. A legacy gift...in essence...from their grandpa.

We took a short hike to see the tallest white pine
in Itasca State Park.

Caring for and Connecting with Others

- Continue participating in the 3 in 30 Challenge as a way to stay accountable for setting three goals per month and reaching them.

During the first week of September, I focused on the goal of setting up and following a meal plan. That worked very well, and we ended up trying a lot of new recipes.

I also finished organizing all the paperwork and receipts for taxes. This will save a lot of time at the end of the year/beginning of 2013.

- Begin participating in the 30 Days of Lists and Autumn Blog Challenge.

I have kept up with doing each day of the 30 Days of Lists. I have posted the majority of them on my Flickr site, the 30 Days of Lists forum, and blogged about them HERE and HERE.

One of the lists I did for 
30 Days of Lists.

Out of 8 prompts for the Autumn Blog Challenge, I chose to write about five of them.

- Complete the 12 in 12 Challenge that Sophia, Olivia, and I are doing by December 12, 2012 (12-12-12).

Olivia and I filled the bird feeders and cleaned the bird bath.

One of the hummingbirds visiting the feeder.

I also prepared the hand-embroidered toy that we will put somewhere for someone to find by packaging it up in a bag with a note that the toy is free.

- For the next 100 days, actively look for something positive in each person in my family every day, and write it down. Use these for Christmas gifts.

I have done this each day, and am so excited to be working on this project. I think when the people see and read 100 positive things about themselves, they'll each find meaning in the gift. Hopefully it will be an uplifting and memorable gift for each of them.  

- Continue with Foodie Penpals as a way to introduce others and myself to healthy food options.

I was assigned a penpal whom I contacted to see if she had any food preference and/or dietary restrictions. I also was contacted by the person who will be sending a package of food to me.

While I was on the trip, I found a few things that I want to include in the package to my penpal. I will be looking for more items and/or making food during the upcoming week since the package needs to be mailed by September 15th.

Creative Expression

- Continue with Take a Stitch Tuesday; and do a weekly journal entry which includes the stitch of the week, personal reflection, and gratitude list.

I read what the challenge is for the week, but have not done any stitching or the journal entry yet.

- Continue with the Embroidery Journal Project and do one embroidered quilt square for each month (September, October, November, and December).

I did not start working on this yet. Usually I end up waiting until the third week to start working the EJP because I want to see what stands out as the most important and meaningful things that happened during the month. Then I search for images to reflect those things, and begin doing the embroidered square.

- Complete Coloring Mandalas - For Insight, Healing, and Self-Expression.

I did two mandalas this week - on the 1st and 6th. As I looked at the dates of when I had colored the other mandalas, I realized that I stopped doing them during 2011 and until now - the time that Dad's health was steadily declining; he died; and Mom was hospitalized/in the Transitional Care Unit/Assisted Living apartment.

It feels good to begin doing the mandalas on a regular basis. I'll look forward to seeing the book completed - a reflection of creative expression from 2008-2012.

Financial

- Don’t buy anything that I don’t absolutely need for 100 days. Use any money I save to do one of the following:
=> Pay down my debt.
=> Put it toward my six-month emergency fund.
=> Put it toward a car to replace the one with 214,000+ miles on it.

Out of the 8 days, I didn't spend anything on 4 days (50% of them)! I'm very happy about that.  On 2 days, we spent only what we needed:
=> Battery for Sophia's camera (the camera is used for homeschooling and 4-H - for educational purposes which I consider a necessity).
=> Gasoline - for the car and mowing the lawn.
=> Cat and dog food.
=> Cat litter.

Because of the trip, 2 days didn't go so well because I spent money on things that we didn't truly need, but wanted to get:
=> Treats at Dairy Queen on the trip to Lake Itasca.
=> Food for my Foodie Penpal.
=> Gift for a friend's birthday.
=> Breakfast at Douglas Lodge at Lake Itasca.
=> Ice cream treats on the trip back home from Lake Itasca.

What I need to remember is that depriving myself and the girls isn't healthy behavior either. That will only result in reckless spending. Responsible spending is key.

As I wrote in the journal/checklist I'm keeping: "We ate breakfast at Douglas Lodge. Wanted to give that experience and memory to the girls so they had it. Was it needed? No. But it's a legacy gift and memory...and to me that is equally as valuable."

*~*~*~*~*~*

All in all, I'm very happy with the progress I'm making. It's good to have these goals and be making a conscientious effort to reach them.

Friday, September 7, 2012

3 in 30 September Update - #1

Here it is the 7th of September already. The days have gone by so quickly. Three of the four days, Sophia, Olivia, and I were at Itasca State Park, so I didn't have a chance to work on the first two goals I set for the 3 in 30 challenge for September: 

=> Organize fabric. Most of the fabric I use for projects are in bins grouped by color. However, there are some pieces of fabric that are in bags that I want to put in the bins. Also, I'd like to go through all the fabric and donate the pieces I don't care for any longer and/or plan to use.

=>  Begin to organize taxes. Last month when I cleaned my office, I came across an expandable file. I had set it up one year to put receipts and other documentation in for each category for taxes (e.g., health care, mortgage payments, homeschooling expenses). I'd like to take what I have saved thus far and put them in the appropriate categories to make tax-time easier in 2013.

What I have done this month so far is focus on the third goal: 

=>  Plan meals for the month. Sophia will be making food as part of her Eastern Hemisphere curriculum; Olivia will be making food as part of Five in a Row; and both the girls will be making food as part of the Cantering the Country curriculum (U.S. geography).  So, each week there are more lunches and dinners being prepared through homeschooling than there are from what I have on hand. 

I need to schedule these homeschooling meals and balance them out with food that I make so that the girls aren't cooking for each of the meals. This also will use items that we have on hand so we aren't wasting food.


I created a menu plan for the first 11 days of the month. I use to do many years ago, and then for some reason I stopped. It is nice to have the menu planned out ahead of time again so I know what to take out from the freezer or what needs to be prepared ahead of time (e.g., if something needs to marinate for an extended period of time).

Olivia and I made three items so far that tie in with a Babar book that I read to her as part of the Five in Row curriculum: peanut pasta:

Peanut Pasta with fresh carrots and broccoli.
This is a vegetarian dinner that we all enjoyed.
We definitely will make this again.

peanut salad:

Peanut Salad.
The dressing didn't have much flavor, and 
with cucumbers and mushrooms - 
it doesn't last long in the refrigerator.

and peanut bars:

Peanut Bars.
Absolutely delicious...we are definitely making these again.

Sophia and I made two recipes for part of her Eastern Hemisphere curriculum. Currently, we are focusing on China. She made Cashew Chicken:


Cashew Chicken. 
It was excellent...tasted like we were having dinner
at a restaurant.

and Stir-fried Spinach:

Stir-fried Spinach.
Wouldn't make this again.

I also made some items that weren't tied into curriculum. The links are to pictures and recipes of the food I made:
=> Low-fat zucchini brownies.
=> Easy pasta salad.
=> Porcupine burgers.
=> Cucumber-lemon water.
=> Homemade granola bars.

Even when we went camping, there was a menu that I followed for lunches:

Picnic at Charles Lindbergh State Park
in Little Falls, Minnesota.

and dinners:

Olivia making her dinner over a campfire
at Lake Itasca State Park.

We enjoyed eating making our dinner over the campfire both evenings we were at Lake Itsasca State Park.

Enjoying dinner in the gazebo on Tuesday night
at Itasca State Park.

The second day we chose to eat at the picnic table for a change in location.

Dinner outdoors at the picnic table
by the cabin we stayed in at Itasca State Park.
It was built in the 1930s by the CCC.

Before I left on the camping trip, I spent some cut cutting fresh fruits and putting them in quart-size bags to make smoothies during the fall.  Each bag has: strawberries, bananas, pineapple, musk melon, oranges, apples, kiwi, pears, and a spoon of honey.


When I want to make a fruit beverage, I just need to take a bag out of the freezer, empty it into the Vita-Mix mixer, and blend. To alter the consistency a bit, I can add water, juice, and/or yogurt.

As I look at the menu plan for the next five days, there is a combination of meals that Olivia will learn to prepare, Sophia will make with guidance, and both will work on together. Lots of new recipes to try which will be fun!