Monday, November 7, 2022
Scavenger Hunt #3
Monday, November 29, 2021
Thanksgiving Table and Food
Thanksgiving 2021 marked a year where we could gather. It was such a contrast to last year - 2020 - when COVID-19 and the pandemic affected getting together in large groups. It was so nice to be together again!
The day started out early - around 7 a.m. I took out the turkey and ham from the refrigerator, and began cutting the onions and celery for the dressing. I sauteed the onions and celery with butter and mushrooms. Seasoned it with dried herbs from our garden plus salt and pepper. The house took on the "Thanksgiving smell" at that point.
I prepped the Brussels sprouts side dish and green beans with shallots. Next, I took out all of the silver and dishes that I wanted to use.
By this time, the girls were awake and started helping me. Olivia wanted to polish all of the silver. Sophia put in the whole cloves where I had scored the ham. After she was done, I poured a bunch of honey over the ham since the girls wanted a honey ham.
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Alone Together - Love, Grief, and Comfort in the Time of COVID-19
Who would have thought in March 2020 that one year later COVID-19 would still be around, we would be wearing masks, and over 500,000 people would have died it? It is not surprising that books about COVID-19 have been added to the library collection. A new book that I found at the library is Alone Together - Love, Grief, and Comfort in the Time of COVID-19 which is edited by Jennifer Haupt.
Some things that stood out from the various poems and stories include:
- Part of the tremendous unease during the pandemic has been recognizing that we are in the midst of transformation, with no clear sense of where it will lead and little reassuring guidance along the way.
- We're doing these things we didn't have time for in the past because we were so busy with our lives.
- What's the new normal now? I'm finding that we're going back to some of the things that we used to do growing up and my kid is enjoying it!
Enjoying watching and photographing birds during the pandemic.
- These shared experiences are bringing us closer together, and I think that's one of the gifts of this time, that we're going to develop some new old ways of interacting with each other.
Making food for holidays and other special days.
- That's when I saw something I'd missed for a long time. Smiles.
- Only when I noticed others doing errands in their pajamas did I realize that...people were going outside wearing the clothes they'd just slept in. It wasn't exhibitionism. Dressing had become as blurry as the days of the week.
- Our faces became armored with masks. When people approached it was impossible to determine if they were happy or threatening.
Some of our Lions Club members packaging food for
other members before a Zoom club meeting.
- Each week I spend triple (on groceries) what I did pre-virus and still feel like I do not have enough.
- The virus sheds and we shed what doesn't serve us so we can focus on what matters.
- In times like these, trying to produce any kind of art feels a bit frivolous. But when we're stuck in our homes and told only to go out when absolutely needed, making art is probably the best way to combat anxiety and atrophy.
- We can treat our pain and create change when we turn our grief and anger into action.
- The plans that had been the tent poles for my illusion of control were pulled right out of the ground. I had to make new plans, live by new rules, which took some doing.
- For the first time in her life, she must do nothing at all.
- Somewhere in the past year, she has stopped waking up more beautiful each day. Something has shifted in her face and she sees age flicker between her brows then dive down to the two crevices on the sides of her mouth.
- Grace is finding your own unique strengths and developing those as best you can. Grace is doing what you love and loving what you do.
- You want to keep arguing for those things you were passionate about fifty days ago, but you cannot remember what day of the week itis, you cannot remember the month.
- You see your family and friends via cell phone, via computer. Your hair is grayer. There are circles under everyone's eyes, there are worry lines accenting the corners of mouths.
Conducting meetings on Zoom has become the new normal.
At this particular one, we had a speaker and bald eagle from The Raptor Center
join us for a presentation.
Friday, February 12, 2021
College Admissions During COVID - Book Notes
It's time again for college visits, but this time for Olivia. Having gone through college visits with Sophia in 2018, I can say that this round is substantially different. Masks, social distancing, Zoom meetings, not bringing outside food and beverages onto campuses during college visits, no handshakes - all make for quite a uniquely memorable experience.
Given how everything is different than in the past in terms of admissions, I was happy to come across College Admissions During COVID - How to Navigate the New Challenges in Admissions, Testing, Financial Aid, and More by Robert Frankek.
Although some of the information was general and I already knew because of having one daughter in college (e.g., what the FAFSA is, test options, financial aid), there were some things that are helpful to know:
- A best fit for college rests on four things: academic fit, cultural fit, financial fit, and career fit.
- Ask about on-campus research experiences such as working alongside a professor in a lab, writing a thesis, or completing a capstone project for a major.
- Practice taking the ACT while wearing a mask and at the time that the test will be held.
- If an ACT score is low, remember that a college application also includes essays, teacher recommendations, and extracurricular activities. These all set you apart from other applicants.
- Timeline:
JUNIOR YEAR
- Take the ACT when you are ready
- Balance schoolwork and outside-school interests
- Take the most challenging courses available to you.
- Start gathering teacher recommendations
- Make virtual campus visits for a narrowed-down college list
- Research available scholarships
SUMMER BEFORE SENIOR YEAR
- Start working on your application and prewriting college essays
- Make a calendar of all application deadlines (college and scholarships)
- Consider visiting colleges that are on the top of your list
- If you are applying for Early Decision, take the ACT no later than September
- Create your own project. Turn your interests and talents into a summer-long project (e.g., practicing creative writing and submitting your work to journals that publish the work of high school students)
- Become an entrepreneur - start a business that offers a service to your community
- Volunteer locally - commit to volunteering for a few hours a week from now through senior year
- Find a research opportunity. Use a platform like Zooniverse to contribute to scientific research or transcribe historical documents
SENIOR YEAR - FALL
- Apply early if you're a strong candidate
- Finish applications and stay on top of deadlines for scholarships and financial aid
- Keep focused and study. Senior grades matter and can affect financial aid
SENIOR YEAR - SPRING
- Send thank-you notes to your recommenders
- Talk to family before making a final college choice
- Read through your college's course catalog and start planning for your next four years!
- Your GPA and the rigor of your high school courses are the most important factors on your application.
- Find and commit to the extracurricular activities that you find meaningful. Look for activities through community organizations
- Find ways to further your passions on your own initiative, apart from school settings
- Look at websites for engaging in service that helps others:
- All for Good
- Catchafire
- Crisis Text Line
- Points of Light
- Project Gutenberg
-Smithsonian Transcription Center
- United Nations Volunteers
- World Family Children Foundation
- Earn money by creating art or graphic designs and selling them to others. Check out CafePress
- If you're an artist, meet online with an Art Club to share and critique work for your portfolio, or deliver illustrations and photography to brighten up a local hospital or nursing home.
- Send in a financial aid appeal as soon as possible after the financial aid package arrives.
- Be honest about any claims you make about your finances with the financial aid officer.
- Finish college in three years, if possible. Take the maximum number of credits each semester and earn credits via online courses.
- College essay: tell about something that is important to you - an experience, a person, or a book. It shows colleges the unique qualities you will add to the incoming class.
- Take the opportunity to really examine how an experience taught you something you didn't previously know about yourself, got you out of your comfort zone, or forced you to grow.
- Always send thank-you notes to people with whom you've interviewed.
- Asking for a letter of recommendation
- Ask early - either in your late junior year or senior year
- Get detailed - provide a resume so the person doing the letter of recommendation has something to work with
- Let the person know when you need the letter of recommendation
Sunday, November 8, 2020
Healing the Divide - Poems of Kindness and Connection
Recently I read Healing the Divide - Poems of Kindness and Connection which is edited by James Crews.
There are quite a few poems in this book that I liked or that I wanted to read multiple times. Below are some of them.
REVISIT
Carol Cone
What do you see when
your baby comes home at fifty?
Do you remember the child
who couldn't sleep a single night
for two endless years
who wouldn't eat most foods
who pushed your hugs away
who gave kisses to no one?
Slowly, the years passed without
a hug, a visit, a Christmas card, yet
whatever brought the epiphany -
his father's death, a mid-life crisis
or realization that half a life
had passed him by, much too fast -
he came home at fifty,
erasing years of separation.
Just a visit, an experiment,
still prickly but ready to talk,
to reach out an inch or two
perhaps to build a fragile bridge
across those missing years.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
SMALL KINDNESSES
Danusha Laméris
down a crowded aisle, people pull in their legs
to let you by. Or how strangers still say “bless you”
when someone sneezes, a leftover
from the Bubonic plague. “Don’t die,” we are saying.
And sometimes, when you spill lemons
from your grocery bag, someone else will help you
pick them up. Mostly, we don’t want to harm each other.
We want to be handed our cup of coffee hot,
and to say thank you to the person handing it. To smile
at them and for them to smile back. For the waitress
to call us honey when she sets down the bowl of clam chowder,
and for the driver in the red pick-up truck to let us pass.
We have so little of each other, now. So far
from tribe and fire. Only these brief moments of exchange.
What if they are the true dwelling of the holy, these
fleeting temples we make together when we say, “Here,
have my seat,” “Go ahead — you first,” “I like your hat.”
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
I CONFESS
Alison Luterman
I stalked herMonday, May 18, 2020
Asian-Style Spicy Coleslaw
I had some cabbage that I wanted to use and had all but one of the ingredients on hand. That's the type of recipe I like - one where I have everything available and don't have to go out and get something special.
The recipe has a flavorful and spicy flavor which I enjoyed. I wasn't able to detect the Asian fish sauce in it, but Sophia could and said she didn't care for it. I think it could be eliminated since it isn't a critical ingredient.
I made half a recipe since I knew that only Sophia and I would eat it. So, I kept some of the dressing aside to add as we were eating it so the cabbage and other vegetables wouldn't soften.
I would make this recipe again - maybe next time without the fish sauce and see if that makes a difference in the taste.
Ingredients
1/4 cup plus 2 tablespoons smooth peanut butter
3 tablespoons fresh lime juice
3 tablespoons Asian fish sauce
3 tablespoons water
3 tablespoons sugar
3 garlic cloves, minced
1 tablespoon Sriracha chile sauce
2 pounds napa cabbage, thinly sliced (12 cups) (I didn't have this so used regular cabbage)
3/4 pounds red cabbage, thinly sliced (3 cups) (I didn't have this either so I used regular cabbage)
3 medium carrots, julienned
2 red peppers, thinly sliced
3 tablespoons chopped cilantro
15 mint leaves
Salt and freshly ground pepper
Directions
In a medium bowl, whisk the peanut butter with the lime juice, fish sauce, water, sugar, garlic and Sriracha. In a large bowl, toss the napa and red cabbages with the carrots, peppers, cilantro and mint. Toss the salad with the dressing and season with salt and pepper. Serve right away.
Sunday, May 17, 2020
Making Some More Window Stars
This is the pattern and instructions.
I made both a yellow and lime-green version of the window star. I think lighter colors are better so the pattern can be seen easier than with a dark color.
I tried making the window star again, but using 2.5"x5.5" paper. The results were somewhat different with the smaller size, but no other significant changes:
This is how the sizes compare - with the yellow using the larger 3"x6" paper and the lime green using the 2.5"x5.5" paper.
The second star I made didn't even come close to the image in the image on Pinterest. This is my result.
This is the pattern that was linked to Fashion and Recipes. It has quite a few patterns on the website. I used 3"x6" pink kite paper.
Now as I look at it I'm wondering if I forgot the last two steps with folding the points into the middle. I may have to try this one again.
It's been fun trying some new patterns during the stay-at-home order. It passes the time and gives me something creative to do.
Thursday, May 7, 2020
A Positive Message During the COVID-19 Pandemic
The story speculates what life will be like once a cure for COVID-19 happens. Will people go back to their old ways or will they want to stay with what life has been like?
Have there been positive changes in your life because of COVID-19 and the stay-at-home orders?
This video is worth taking a few minutes to watch.
Here is the written version of the story:
Tell me the one about the virus again.
Then I'll go to bed.
But my boy, your growing weary,
sleepy though about your head.
Please! That's ones my favorite.
I promise, just once more.
Ok, Snuggle down, my boy,
though I know you know full well,
this story starts before then
in a world, I once would dwell.
It was a world of waste and wonder
of poverty and plenty,
back before we understood
why hindsight's twenty-twenty.
You see the people came up with companies
to trade across all lands.
But they swelled and got much bigger
than we ever could have planned.
We'd always had out wants,
but now it got so quick.
You could have anything you dreamed of
in a day, and with a click.
We noticed families had stopped talking.
That's not to say they never spoke,
but the meaning must have melted
and the work-life balance broke.
And the children eyes get squarer
and every toddler had a phone.
They filtered out the imperfections
but amidst the noise they felt alone.
And every day the skies grew thicker
till you couldn't see the stars.
So we flew in planes to find them
while down below we filled out cars.
We'd drive around all day in circles,
we'd forgotten how to run.
We swapped the grass for tarmac,
shrunk the parks 'till there were none.
We filled the seas with plastic
because our waist was never capped.
Until each day when you went fishing,
you'd pull them out already wrapped.
And while we drank and smoked and gambled
our leaders taught us why.
It's best to not upset the lobbies
more convenient to die.
But then in 2020,
a new virus came out way.
The governments reacted
and told us to all to hide away.
But while we all were hidden
amidst the fear and all the while,
the people dusted off their instincts.
They remembered how to smile.
They started clapping to say thank you
and calling up their mums
And while the car keys gather dust
they would look forward to their runs.
And when the skies less full of voyages
the earth began to breath
And the beaches bore new wildlife
that scuttled off into the seas.
Some people started dancing,
some were singling, some were baking.
We'd grown so used to bad news
but some good news was in the making.
And so when the found the cure,
and were allowed to go outside,
we all preferred the world we found,
to the one, we'd left behind.
Old habits became in extinct
and they made for the new.
And every simple act of kindness
was now given its due.
But why did it take a virus
to bring the people back together?
Well, sometimes you've got to get sick,
my boy, before you start feeling better.
Now lie down and dream of tomorrow
and all the things that we can do.
And who knows, if you dream hard enough,
maybe some of them will come true.
We now call it the Great Realizations
and yes, since then, there have been many,
but that's the story of how it started
and why hindsight is twenty-twenty.
Thursday, April 23, 2020
Scrappy "Sewn" Greeting Cards
The first step was folding a 9"x12" (or 8 1/2" x 11") piece of cardstock in half. Then, cut a variety of scrapbook paper into small pieces. This gives a starting point for fitting the pieces on the card.
Cut the pieces as needed to fit the front of the card. Below are the two layouts I did. The one on the left uses scrapbook paper and the one on the right uses handmade marbled paper that I made.
Next, take a thin, black permanent marker and draw little lines around each of the pieces of paper. It kind of reminds me of the blanket stitch in embroidery.
This was a fun project to do and used up some of the paper I had on hand.


























